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Awkwardly Amorous: Uncuffed

Cuffing season approaches and what better to write about in a column about dating, right? I have spent almost three weeks procrastinating on writing this post. So many that I finally went on a long rant to a friend and decided it fit perfectly. Here’s how I feel about cuffing season:  Every time I think…

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ADHD and Inadequacy: 4 Comparisons Holding You Back

Many of us struggle with ADHD and inadequacy, The grass is NOT greener on the neurotypical side. We as ADHD folks idealize life w.ithout the disorder. Don't.

Many of us struggle with ADHD and inadequacy. Sometimes we as ADHD folks idealize what life might be without hyperfocus, time blindness and the inability to concentrate on anything. The grass is NOT greener on the neurotypical side. We spend a great deal of time thinking, “if only I was ‘normal,’ things would be so…

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How To Clean Up Your Emotional Clutter

Have you ever filled the trash can past its limits? The lid won’t shut anymore, you can plainly see it needs to be dumped but you keep pushing and pushing to fit more in. Why? There’s a myriad of reasons: Sometimes we’re too busy. Sometimes we are overwhelmed lazy. Sometimes there are too many distractions…

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ADHD and Black Children- Step Up or Butt Out!

I’m not putting my?child on medicine.””They’re always trying to diagnose our kids with something.””That child don’t need nothing but a butt whooping. Here, send them to my house.””Don’t invite her, she’ll bring those kids. They need to learn how to sit down.”One of our favorite topics as black people is how to raise children, and…

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