Passion is a must in any potential connection. Remember the gentleman being a wolf? Well at some point, I’d like to feel like Little Red Riding Hood, not her grandma. This is a process folks: passion cannot be manufactured. It is a slow process that must be built, preferably during the course of the day/week/whatever timeline you’re working with before you pounce.
I’ll elaborate: Once upon a time, I sold vacuums door to door. Yes, people still do that.
Anyway, one of the things I learned (besides how to clean ANY stain out of a carpet) is that sales is a transfer of emotion. So too, is dating. Sometimes the energy flows both ways, and sometimes it doesn’t.
Right now, if you want to keep my attention, I have to be sold. What does it take to sell me on this energy?
- Make me laugh/smile/cry/amuse me: I have ADHD, I live for the dopamine. I am accepting memes, funny pics and sweet notes to say hello. Laughter is not only the best medicine, it’s a sure fire way to attract someone. Laughter is sorcery. Mesmerize me.
- Compliments. Women live for compliments. All we need to survive is water and compliments. Heavy on the compliments, light on the water.
- Be sincere: you can’t transfer an emotion you don’t feel. If you think I’m amazing, I want to hear it. If I make you smile, I want to hear it. If you’re thinking about me: I want to hear it. Just make sure you mean it.
It is not complicated, people. If you are passionate, go for it. Show me. Sell it!
Awkward as always,